Guide: LGBTQIA+ Co-Parenting – Practical Tips for Everyday Life

Why a specific guide?
Because rainbow families come in many forms: adoption, surrogacy, blended parenting, transitions… And each path deserves real, practical support.

1. Define everyone’s role

💡 Who does what? From school pickups to health care to birthdays—define and respect each role, including social parents.

2. Communicate clearly

Use a neutral platform (like 2houses) to:

• Log daily details
• Keep tone respectful
• Prevent emotional overload
  And yes—having a co-parenting code of conduct helps.

3. Protect your child

• Speak positively about their family structure
• Prepare them (gently) for outside comments
• Involve them in some decisions to build their security and trust

4. Stay organized legally

• Centralize legal documents
• If one parent isn’t legally recognized, consider power of attorney agreements
• Consult with a family law expert familiar with LGBTQ+ dynamics

5. Celebrate your family

• Use inclusive books, games, and visuals
• Mark Pride Month together
• Remind your child: their family is whole, loved, and valid

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Helpful resources:

• Trevor Project – US
• APGL – France (EN version)
• 2houses features