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Back to School: Better Organizing for an Easier Co-Parenting Relationship

Back-to-school time is here! You can see folders, notebooks, and pencil holders filling up the store shelves. This is a great chance to not only get your child’s school supplies ready but also to update your co-parenting plan. Being organized right from the start can make co-parenting much easier.

Here are five simple tips to help you have a smooth school year and keep good communication with your co-parent.

1. Be Proactive

When it comes to your child’s education, staying involved is super important. You don’t have to share all the details about your divorce or co-parenting with your child’s teacher, but it’s good to let them know about any specific needs or situations. For instance, if you and your ex have different work schedules and can’t both make it to the same parent-teacher conference, tell the teacher early on. This shows that you care about your child’s education and helps the teacher understand your family’s situation.

A good start is to send a quick email to the teacher at the beginning of the school year. Tell them about any tricky stuff they need to know, like if you share custody. This helps everyone get on the same page and shows you’re invested in your kid’s success.

2. Streamline Communication

School papers can be a mess! There are lots of forms to fill out. To make things easier, you and your kid’s other parent can use a 2houses co-parenting app. It helps you keep track of everything.

You can put important papers, like school forms, on the app. Plus, you can see when your kid has school stuff, like games or shows. This helps both of you know what’s going on. It’s a good idea to make a shared calendar for both of you. Put things like school events, sports, and who has the kids on it. That way, you both know what’s up and won’t miss anything important.

3. Double-Check Everything

Even in the best co-parenting situations, miscommunications can happen. It’s easy to misinterpret messages or forget important details. If you’re unsure about something, such as the date of a school event, double-check before making assumptions. Many schools offer parent portals where you can verify information directly.

4. Keep Things Consistent Between Houses

It’s important for kids to have the same rules at both their parents’ houses. This helps them feel calm and happy. Try to make things similar, like when they do their homework or go to bed. It’s okay if not everything is exactly the same, but having similar rules is really good for kids.

Homework time is important. You both parents should agree on when kids do their homework. For example, maybe they do it right after school at both places. This helps kids learn to study and makes things easier for everyone.

5. Make Respect and Compassion Priorities

Successful co-parenting is all about respect and kindness. Treat your co-parent like you would a valued coworker. Avoid sarcasm and snide comments, and remember that everyone has tough days. Your kids shouldn’t have to deal with their parents’ conflicts.

Always try to see things from your co-parent’s point of view. If they forget something important or seem grumpy, they might be dealing with their own problems. A little understanding can go a long way in keeping a good co-parenting relationship.

Case Study

Let me share a story that can help you manage your child’s education in a more organized way. Over the past decade, we’ve worked with many separated couples navigating co-parenting. Our experts have helped countless families make co-parenting easier and more organized. Here’s the story of Valentina and David, who came to us right after their divorce.

Valentina and David were both dedicated to their son’s well-being but faced typical post-divorce co-parenting challenges. As the back-to-school season approached, they knew they needed a more organized and harmonious approach to ensure their son could thrive academically and emotionally.

Initially, they struggled with disorganized communication about school events, inconsistent routines between households, and occasional arguments in front of their son, which caused him stress. They sought our advice, and we suggested some strategies.

First, they started using a shared calendar system by installing the 2houses app on their phones. They entered all school events, extracurricular activities, and important dates into the calendar. This helped them stay informed about their son’s schedule and reduced misunderstandings and missed events.

Second, they began having bi-weekly check-ins through the app if they couldn’t meet in person. These meetings allowed them to discuss upcoming events, address concerns, and adjust plans, helping them stay aligned and proactive.

Third, they agreed to keep the same bedtime routine in both households. This consistency provided their son with stability, making him feel secure and well-rested, which positively impacted his school performance and overall well-being.

Lastly, they decided to handle disagreements privately and respectfully. By keeping conflicts away from their son, they minimized his emotional stress and maintained a peaceful environment.

The results were exactly what they were looking for. By implementing a shared calendar and making regular check-ins a priority, they ensured both parents were always in sync. A consistent bedtime routine and a respectful approach to disagreements created a calm and stable home for their son. 

The outcome? Their child flourished academically and emotionally. Less stress and more support from both parents – it’s a winning combination!

Why 2houses?

We are a co-parenting facilitator!

calendar

A calendar for everyone, getting organised when you’re divorced is a priority. 2houses provides you an online shared schedule, with many editing, adding, and sync features.

Finance

For us, as divorced parents, the financial topic is most of the time a conflict topic. Now, 2houses manages all expenses from each parent, keeps you informed on the situation, day after day, coins after coins.

Messages

Communication is key, this is why 2houses offers you an online messaging tool, simple, efficient and secure.

Journal

The journal is your quick family social network. You can easily share all information, news, photos, videos, and even your children’s funny quotes. The family is never far away, no matter where you are geographically located.

And many more features!

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